start of year 2

hahaha....i've basically nothing much to post about. results for my last sem had been out dy (praise God for the marks i got!!!) and fair enough, classes started dy. this semester is kinda different as the lects i've got seems kinda ok (for once). so means, more work...noooooooooo.....hahaha....it's juz the 1st week of class...i hv a course forum waiting for me to do dy....ish....then again, i cant say tat i'm vry busy as well....coz it's juz the beginning of the semester hahaha.... well...it's year2 of my degree....so cant complain....aih... :p

ehehe....was kinda bored...so decided to do the test i found in belle's blog.....it's quite true for me.... har har har....so dun simply say anything to me, coz i'm sensitive!!! lolness.....jeez the boredom is getting to me... -.-**

Your Sensitivity Score: 64%

You are a highly sensitive person. Pretty much everything effects you. You are tuned into the vibe around you, and someone's bad mood can bring you down. But you also easily share in someone's joy - whether you know them or not.

Are You Extremely Sensitive?

moving on to greater heights

So many things unthinkable, uncomprehensive, unimaginable, beyond phantom is happening everyday....things you cant beleive that would happen to you is being made true....prophecies coming to past.... the thought of it is mind-boggling.

Fears, of the inability to handle the situation, the task, the position is raw and real, and all the what if this...? what if that...? goes through the mind without fail. ah, the reality that i'm so human begins to dawn in me, as the care-free moments fade away.

A small spark of hope still blaze and beleive that it can be done and yes, it's true that if only i take the 1st step of faith, then only God will reveil the next step to take. Yes, i'm only human, which makes me yearn and depend on His strength and mercy and wisdom more.

I'm moving on to greater heights. Looking on beyond the horizon. Setting my sights on the goal. Believing that it can be done, as I hv both God and dear friends to count on.

Yes, i'm moving on.

College ball at Ritz!!

wakakaka...finally had the mood to upload the pics. :p oh well....it takes long for the pics to load into the com mar...so lazy lar...cant blame me right?? hehehe....well...here are the pics which i managed to get from my own cam and frm angel's hp cam.....other then that....i duno *ahem...but *cough....ppl hv'nt *cough...send to me....*cough....yet.... hehehe....u know who u r.... >.<>

so, we'll start wit 3 beautiful babes posing with The Ritz's......thing..... :p

Angel babe looking stunning that night ^^

LOOK!! LOOK!! Prettyla in a dress!! and she looks pretttyyy!!....(darn...sud have taken her in the full dress..)

Karen, David (dun ask me...i duno what he's doing with his tie -.-''), me and Prisc!!

Esther, Yuen (thx for doing make-up for me :D) and ME!! :p

Grace, me and........what is he doing there??

Ricey, looking hot in make-up and dress...... Super-Gorgeous kid!!

group pic!!

Super-Gorgeous kid, take two!! :D

It's black, It's white....

Winson (i still cant help laughing at ur excuses for not coming for the ball), chubes and well...u know by now...Super-Gorgeous kid!!

Chubes and Esther :)

Peek-a-boo!! well i guess tat's all for now :) until i get more pics ^^

Initiater and Initiat-ee

Had been really thinking about the "initiater and initiat-ee" issue since like a gazzilion years ago...and it's perfectly true that people actually tell you that--

"Oh, it's the modern era. So, as girls we can initiate, because [oppurtunities are created by our ownselves]. If the both guy and the girl does not initiate then both of them will never be together, and they'll lose their chance to ever be together. Anyhow, there is no harm to girls initiating."

To tell the truth, I was nearly caught in that trap...but deep down I never ever beleived in such crap. If a guy can't initiate and waits for a girl to intiate then let me tell you bluntly, that guys is not worth your time and energy and your "next-half-of-your-life". Because if he does'nt have the guts to even initiate to the one he loves now, will he be a good, "brave", initiating husband then?? I seriously doubt so.

Yes, the saying that "oppurtunities are created by our ownselves" is true.....but on different growns, and if on this matter, would be for the guys and guys only. If the guy that you like does not initiate, then he's definately not the one for you, and bluntly, would you want to live with a "chicken" the rest of your life?? Think about it...and don't forget to pray too. The article below is really good...maybe it will help you understand more on this as it helped me... :D

"Sisters, all the advice from Vogue, Glamour, and Cosmopolitan that talks about going after and getting your man, all the blather about how in this day and age it is just as acceptable for you to initiate as for him, is just that—blather. Be confident and trust your feelings on this matter. Be confident that if he is the man you hope and wish him to be, he will play the man. You crackle the leaves a bit when he is in the area and let him know you are there. Then wait for him to initiate, or not. In the long run, you will be well served either way." Doing Things Right in Matters of the Heart, page 94

In their newly converted, youthful zeal, my dad and a group of his friends decided that God had called them to remain single. Dad was uninterested in the efforts of women to attract his attention. Put off by their forward manner, it was easy to think that God wasn't leading him to get married.

Until he met my mom.

When he walked into the canteen at the Christian retreat center where Mom was working for the week, she didn't try to catch his eye. Instead, she told him the canteen was closed. After pleading for a hot dog (on the grounds that he'd been serving and preaching all day and was tired and hungry) she finally relented. But to this day, Dad claims the hot dog was as cold as her demeanor. (She disputes this accusation, of course!)

My dad, who only a day before thought he would remain single, was suddenly smitten. Something in him—something that wanted to initiate, pursue, and win a woman's heart—was awakened. So he asked my mom to take a walk. And the rest, as they say, is history.

Mom used to remind my sisters and me of this story when we were tempted to try to get some guy's attention. Allow a man to win your heart, she would say. And if he doesn't want to, then why would you want him?

God created men to initiate and he created women to respond. Or, as John Ensor also puts it, "His power is in the exclamation [of love]. Yours is in the echo." When we remember this, things will work right in matters of the heart.